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Museletter - July 2006

My Muse

The phrase that keeps coming up for me over the last week or two is: ‘There is no meaning other than the meaning we assign to it’. I’ve tried a little bit of research but cannot find it’s origins, though it appears in many philosophical books.

My main interest is not in ‘The meaning of Life’ and indeed if there is one, I’m more interested in the meanings that we assign to normal, everyday events. I think that human beings have an in-built need to understand ourselves, our world, and our place in it. The only way we can do that is when we have an experience, we compare it to some previous experience or experiences and then create an understanding relative to our past experiences.

To take an example of this, if you go on a date and at the end of the evening your date says “I’ll call you” you will look at this as either a potential brush off, or a positive sign that you’ll be seeing them again. One statement, two possible meanings. Who knows which is true? Helen Fielding’s Bridget Jones is a brilliant caricature of how this works in real life. The fact is neither meaning is true at this moment. One may become true in the future, but we create the meaning because we want to understand.

The meaning doesn’t give us understanding, but it does give an illusion of understanding. We kid ourselves with it, and then invest in that understanding by giving it importance. We may even choose to make the understanding ‘certainty’. Now this illusion is in a position of power, and it can be power over us.

I believe that we all have hundreds of these beliefs, these meanings, our understandings. And many of them limit us because they relate to our past. The past does not equal the future. Unless we say it does, or we allow it to influence us so much that we recreate circumstances. In each moment we are free to create whatever we want, whatever is possible, as long as we are free of our negative thoughts.

This month, create something special, just because you can when you thought you couldn’t. And then email me to tell me what you’ve done!

 My News

My website has been revamped and updated, with lots of new content on the ‘Free Stuff’ page. It has a new free goals report program you can do and an opportunity to win a copy of my book The Easiest Way to Double Your Profits. Click on www.dynamiccoaching.co.uk/freestuff.html - discover and win!

Opportunity to Contribute

One of the greatest gifts we have is the gift of life. Those of us who are parents know how amazing it is to create life, but there is a very easy way that you can give the gift of life. (much cheaper than raising kids!)

Donate some of your blood! You body can replace it quickly and easily and you will be saving many lives.

Here is the top ten uses for donated blood: (from www.blood.co.uk)

1 Straight in is General Surgery with a whopping 23%.

2 We have General Medical with 15%.

3 Cardio thoracic (that's heart and chest surgery to you and me) with 13%.

4 A figure of 11% puts Orthopaedics here - that's anything to do with bones and bone diseases.

5 Haematology (blood diseases) with 9%.

6 Accident & Emergency (what you see on "Casualty" every week) with 8%.

7 Joint No. 7 is Renal or anything to do with the kidneys with 6%, along with Neonatal & Paediatrics, which is the treatment of newborns and children.

8 Intensive Care with 4%.

9 Obstetrics & Gynaecology (anything to do with pregnancy and childbirth) weighing in with 3.5%

Your blood can make a real difference, particularly at this time of year with people on holiday missing their regular donation. (That’s me, so make up for me missing my session!)

If you can get to Borehamwood, Herts on Sunday 16th you can donate at our friends Joely Bear Donor Session see www.joelybear.org.uk or the National Blood Service site can find a local donation venue for you: www.blood.co.uk

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