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Museletter
-
December
2006
My Muse
I
had
an
insight
the
other
day
that
I
believe
is
so
important
it
will
change
the
way
I
work.
Here
is a
summary
of
it.
For
some
time
I
have
been
aware
that
although
many
people
achieve
their
goals,
far
too
many
(to
my
mind)
do
not.
As I
started
looking
into
it I
realised
that
we
all
set
goals
to
achieve
something
that
we
don’t
have.
More
money,
a
relationship,
more
confidence,
for
example.
All,
therefore,
come
from
a
perception
of
lack.
Then
I
realised
that
there
is
another
way
to
set
goals:
How
can
I
express
one
or
more
of
my
values?
So
I’ve
reset
my
own
goals
with
this
in
mind.
Many
of
you
know
that
I
have
a
goal
to
be a
Trainer
with
The
Outlook
Training
Organisation.
I
still
do,
and
these
are
my
values
that
I
believe
I
will
express
in
the
pursuit
and
achievement
of
this
goal:
empowerment,
contribution,
commitment,
freedom,
learning,
loving,
support,
passion,
integrity,
and
fun.
Now
the
goal
changes
from
being
‘something
I’m
not’
to
being
something
that
allows
me
to
express
who
I
am.
Although
it’s
a
small
change,
for
me
it’s
a
significant
difference.
I
have
shared
this
insight
with
my
coaching
clients
and
it
seems
to
be
resonating
deeply
with
them.
What
the
system
needs
to
work
is
an
understanding
of
what
values
are
and
what
our
own
personal
values
are.
Then
we
add
on
the
values-based
goals
and
I
believe
we
have
a
highly
motivating
formula
for
success.
Previously,
the
best
way
of
achieving
the
values
clarification
was
in a
one-to-one
coaching
session,
which
has
limitations,
so I
have
devised
a
one-day
workshop,
called
‘Playing
Big’
which
will
give
people
the
understanding,
knowledge,
and
motivation
to
make
their
life
values-based.
The
reason
that
I
called
the
seminar
‘Playing
Big’
is
that
for
most
of
my
life
I’ve
‘Played
Small’.
I’ve
allowed
my
fears
and
limiting
ideas
about
myself
and
the
world
to
dominate
my
thinking,
my
decision
making
and
my
actions.
No
longer
am I
prepared
to
do
this.
No
longer
is
this
an
acceptable
way
to
behave.
I am
going
to
live
my
life
in
accordance
with
my
values,
what
I
believe
to
be
important
and
right
for
me.
And
this
seminar
will
allow
others
the
same
freedom.
My
News
I’ve
not
one
but
two
seminars
to
offer
you
this
month!
Firstly,
the
first
ever
Playing
Big
seminar
will
take
place
on
January
20th
at
Avenue
House,
East
End
Road,
Finchley
Central.
Starting
at
10am
and
going
through
until
5pm.
The
price
for
the
seminar
will
be
£99
per
person,
except
for
this
pilot
version.
For
this
date
only
I am
reducing
the
cost
to
just
£50.
Places
will
be
limited,
so
please
reserve
your
place
quickly!
As a
special
bonus
(as
if
half
price
isn’t
enough!)
the
first
10
delegates
to
register
will
receive
2
coaching
sessions
included
in
the
price,
normal
price
£130.
If
you
are
more
interested
in
business
issues,
I
will
be
delivering
a
talk
on
January
16th,
7pm
at
The
Business
Connection,
Comfort
Hotel,
Northwick
Park
Road,
Harrow,
HA1
2NT,
where
I
will
be
explaining
how
to
create
a
Values
Led
Organisation.
The
second
seminar
I am
running
in
January
is
The
Business
of
Communication
on
the
31st
at
Batchworth
Park
Golf
Club,
London
Road,
Rickmansworth.
Learn
a
simple
yet
effective
tool
to
communicate
better.
Produce
results
from
your
communications
that
will
amaze
you,
from
increasing
sales
to
communicating
with
teenagers!
More
details
on:
www.dynamiccoaching.co.uk/communication.php
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